Ok, I’ve come to a decision. I’m not going to let her get to me anymore. I’m gonna let her keep talking to him and be happy for her that she has that relationship with him. They might start having a “thing” but i’m not going to let that get to me. Now, here’s the big question…How do I NOT let it get to me? I really need some help here and if anybody can give me ANY advice I would really appreciate it. I would like to NOT go into that depression again since I’ve been semi-happy lately. PLEASE HELP!!
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June 9, 2008 at 7:48 am |
Well, you could not let it get into you if you would not allow it to, make sense right? You could do other things which will make you forget about the situation and start doing other things which will make you happy
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June 9, 2008 at 9:50 am |
Hello!
The more we depend upon other people to make us happy the more we get hurt. The more u fight out the feeling and make plans to ignore and not let it get to you, the more difficult it will get… why? coz u r wasting ur time thinking about people who really dont care..
What to do?- ask urself if this friend of urs is actually ur friend? Is it worth making her happy, sacrificing for her, understanding for her. i used to go out of my way to do things for my frnds but i realized its not worth it..people hug u, say that ur best frnds and say i love u but they dont mean it… i know today who are my true frnds n who r people i just hang out with..
Bout the guy?- if he’s really worth it n not having him makes you depressed then why not just tell him. n if he’s into her then just forget about the whole thing. I dont believe in convincing someone u love. it has to be mutual or it wont last n u will get hurt in the end more…
For depression- there is no quick remedy. it will take its time but tell urself ur strong n worthy of all the grt things in life..
Hang on.. smile…feel grt…
tc.
June 9, 2008 at 4:00 pm |
I just wanted to thank ya’ll for commenting! I think that’s really going to help
June 9, 2008 at 4:18 pm |
Hi,
Well, just take your mind off of it. Or atleast try. I know it can be difficult to prevent something disturbing from getting to you.
Just take your mind off of it.. pursue other things, busy yourself. Anything it takes to divert your mind from that subject.
Good luck.
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June 9, 2008 at 6:15 pm |
Cheer up dear, console yourself by just remembering this, “there are two means of refuge from the miseries of life: music and cats (pets)”, by Albert Schweitzer. Or maybe this, “Friend indeed in time of need”. How is that to you? OK, pray for her then. CIAO!
June 9, 2008 at 7:40 pm |
That happened to me too when I was in high school. Though she died of breast cancer at the age of 40 but she apologized when we were still in college. Real friends can stand the test of time. As the saying that goes like this, “Behind the clouds the sun still shines.” Keep yourself busy and trust me you’ll get out of the hole soon.
Bless you.
I might write something about love and relationships next time in my blog.
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